我的internship新室友

离开大学的最后一晚，我们举办了steamboat，University Inn 是个不错的地方哦！那一夜我们还寻宝“大学有什么宝呢？”哈哈。。。就是拍美丽的夜景咯！

我们就是未来六个月的室友了，希望可以和睦相处哦！。。。

朋友，还有amelia n li ning 永远开心哦！保持联络。。。

最后一年下乡

我下乡的家人，aunty,“修贤”“修胜”，这不算全家福，还有我的uncle,小叔，二叔和二婶及他们的小孩“修德”。。。

谢谢你们那么的热情对我像亲戚那样，虽然，我不是时常回sg tiang 家，希望我们的感情不会因这样而变淡忘。

小叔，谢谢你的照顾还有上次车坏在半路，真的不好意思，麻烦你叫朋友出来找我们修理车。

两个第第，你们要听妈妈爸爸的话，还有乖乖读书，考好成绩，你们不要再玩皮了。

下次放sg tiang 的环境。。。

Fish in the pool??

Yesterday, i go to swimming with my roommate..I so happy and can forget any problem when i can touch the swimming pool ... ha ha... I quickly jump into the water although i know i not the expert person to swim but at least i know a little knowledge to swim..

If next time who wan go swimming must find me. In the same time teach me swimming la..Thanks ya..he he..

I very thankful to all of my friends..Thanks.. love u all..

选择适合过一辈子的人

心理學家認為，判斷男女兩個人是否適合「牽手」，應考慮以下10個因素。 　　

第一、彼此都是對方的好朋友，不帶任何條件，喜歡與對方在一起。 　　

第二、彼此很容易溝通、互相可以很敞開地坦白任何事情，而不必擔心被對方懷疑或輕視。 　

第三、兩人在心靈上有共同的理念和價值觀，並且對這些觀念有清楚的認識與追求。 　　

第四、雙方都認為婚姻是一輩子的事，而且雙方(特別強調「雙方」)都堅定地願意委身在這個長期的婚姻關係中。 　　

第五、當發生衝突或爭執的時候可以一起來解決，而不是等以後來發作。　　

第六、相處可以彼此逗趣，常有歡笑，在生活中許多方面都會以幽默相待。 　　

第七、彼此非常瞭解，並且接納對方，當知道對方瞭解了自己的優點和缺點後，仍然確信被他所接納。 　　

第八、從最瞭解你、也是你最信任的對方處得到支持的肯定。 　　

第九、有時會有浪漫的感情，但絕大多數的時候，你們的相處是非常滿足而且是自由自在的。 　　第十、有一個非常理性和成熟的交往，並且雙方都能感受到，在許多不同的層面上你們是很相配的。

愛情最常見的形式就是兩性之間的捕捉與追逐。人際間的好感可以相互傳達出強大的力量，以至於能夠彌補客觀條件的不足。是相似性而非互補性把人們結合到了一起。相似性主要包括三個方面的匹配度：價值觀與人格、興趣和經驗、人際風格。其中，人際風格是最重要的關係預測指標。與和自己人際溝通風格有所差異的人交往會有挫折感，且較少有進一步發展的可能。 愛情是追到手的嗎？不是。真正的感情根本不需要追的。兩個人的默契，在慢慢將兩顆心的距離縮短，在無意識中漸漸靠近彼此。從好朋友到情人，真正的感情是用不了多久的。從你喜歡上他的那一刻起，也許他也在那一刻喜歡上了你。同節奏的愛情往往能奏出最和諧最動聽的樂章。 真正的愛情需要什麼？需要兩個人在一起是輕鬆快樂的，沒有壓力。

愛一個人就是毫無保留地付出嗎？不是。每一個人都是一個獨立的人，我們首先是屬於自己的，我們有思想，我們有個性，而不是把我們的全部都給對方。我們可以有保留，比如你不願意說的隱私，有秘密的人才是成熟的，不是嗎？有時候不說出來反而更好。外貌和個性哪個更重要？男人年輕的時候往往喜歡漂亮的女子，25歲以後，會選擇和自己性格合適的女子，能和自己一起過日子的人。喜歡一個人，太急切了，反而不好。一是因為越想得到的越得不到；二是得到了也很難珍惜，來得快去得也快。細水長流一些，愛情會更長久。相愛容易相處難。相處中最重要的是寬容和妥協，在信任和瞭解的基礎上。沒有寬容和妥協，任何兩個人都無法相處。純純的愛也許只有一次，但是真愛未必只有一次。時間會撫平一切傷痕。我們其實是可以愛上很多人的。我們不是喜歡某個人，而是喜歡某種類型的人。先來的人和我們相遇了，於是我們幸福地走到了一起；對於後到的人，只能抱以歉意，同時，祝福他早日找到屬於他自己的幸福。沒有誰是我們一生非擁有不可的，愛一個人，很多時候實際上是習慣了這個人現實和浪漫哪個更重要？現實。沒有現實為基礎，浪漫就是空中樓閣。大學校園的愛情往往隨著畢業而告終，大多是因為不現實，不在一個城市。 只有相互欣賞相互佩服各有所長的人，才會碰撞出最美麗的火花，也才會結出最甜美的愛情果實。

分手後我們還可以做朋友嗎？最好不要。剪不斷，理還亂。過去了就過去了，我們不是生活在過去，而是現在。愛情不等於生活，只是生活的一部分。不要因為自己長相不如對方而放棄追求的打算，長相只是一時的印象，真正決定能否結合主要取決於雙方的性格。我見過的帥哥配醜女，醜女配帥哥的太多了。戀愛的時間能長儘量長。這最少有兩點好處：一，充分、儘可能長的享受戀愛的愉悅，二，兩人相處時間越長，越能檢驗彼此是否真心，越能看出兩人性格是否合得來。想知道一個人愛不愛你，就看他和你在一起有沒有活力，開不開心，有就是愛，沒有就是不愛 愛情不是感動，你不是他心目中的理想伴侶，即使一時接受你，將來碰上他心儀的那一位，一樣會離開你。有些人情緒容易大起大落，這樣的人是很難維持一段長久的關係的。

浪漫是什麼？是送花？雨中漫步？樓前佇立不去？如果兩人彼此傾心相愛，什麼事都不做，靜靜相對都會感覺是浪漫的。否則，即使兩人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感覺不到浪漫的。 　　

是否門當戶對不要緊，最重要應該是興當趣對，不然沒有共同語言，即使在一起，仍然會感覺到孤獨。持久的愛情源於彼此發自內心的真愛，建立在平等的基礎之上。任何只顧瘋狂愛人而不顧自己有否被愛，或是只顧享受被愛而不知真心愛人的人都不會有好的結局。愛情既是風險投資，難免有去無回，失戀是再正常不過的事情。愛過，就夠了。

既然不能在一起，總有不能在一起的理由。不能因為別人負了你，就不負責任地遊戲、報復或是墮落，自己演的戲，總要自己收場的。何況，他不愛你，你做什麼他都不會在乎。如果愛上，就不要輕易放過機會。莽撞，可能使你後悔一陣子；怯懦，卻可能使你一輩子後悔。沒有經歷過愛情的人生是不完整的，沒有經歷過痛苦的愛情是不深刻的。愛情使人生豐富，痛苦使愛情昇華。

你可能習慣與現在的戀人，明明不太喜歡，但在一起久了，習慣使人不太願做新的選擇。人生會面臨無數次選擇。當給你機會選擇時，你一定要謹慎；一旦你做出了選擇，就永遠不要後悔；拿得起，放得下，該斷則斷，該忘記的，就把它忘記；該珍惜的，就要把它珍惜

My heart are crying

Today, in my facebook i saw he with other girl.. In my heart are in crying.. May be this is true thing that she done for me.. It good to me that forget him..I know u also sad but for my future, this is the right thing for u..( In ur mind).. I just can say : Thanks..

Hope u not regret..

The right thing

Today i receive a call from bee hua.. She say Dr kang invite her go changlun having lunch. Then she call me together.
Although Dr. Kang look like untidy and unclean because him car are very dirty such long time din't wash car. Bee wah just tell he go wash car, then he really listen her advise.
At the car, we also charting..Sometime, i think may be i need to learn how to put down a thing, dun always stubborn. Always do the right thing, not do the thing right.

Meaning of Love

2003 year, a girl who know a boy at the bowling center. At that time, the girl is a very simple thinking because she stay at JB just two years. They are falling in love each other from that time.
2004 year, the boy who are require the girl whether can together with her. After consider, the girl is agree with him, although the girl family are disagree. But, they very happy and happiness through their life.
2005 year, this is first critical time to them. It is because the girl need to go penang follow her study, require by her grandfather. If without her grandfather support, may be the girl will be study social work. Next, they are difficult to receive this problem but the boy are very caring the girl and say will waiting her until her finish studying.
Start from the girl go penang, the boy are very worry and always give a call to the girl, even so. that boy is coming alone to penang to find her. Besides that, the boy willing borrow money from him friend to find her. This picture is very touching the girl. They are so love each other. But after day the girl feel be irritated because the girl feel she is lost the freedom.
2006, the girl are sucees in University. Since that day, they always quarrel, it is because the are feel that boy not caring her, not beside her, dindn't listen the girl feeling and many many between problem. All of this are cause by the girl dissatisfied her condition. (But she dind't know this is the best of the boy can given).
2008, the girl are face a boy in University through them aktiviti who is fullfill requirement by the girl. She think that this boy is her happinest. Then she make a desicion want to be with him under requirement by the second boy. But , she never think that this is a wrong desicion because inside the second boy heart, he still keep contact with her ex-girlfriend. Everytime the girl are cold war with the second boy, him ex-girlfriend will appear and give advise to the girl. (The girl still not smart about betwen their condition)
2008 year end, the girl and the second boy finally are separete and the girl are clear that she is done a very very wrong thing. Because she hurt the boy aldready and the boy are hurting very deep.
2009, the girl find back the boy, may be it can say the girl vey bad but from that time she know who are the best and who is the truely love her. The girl are reuion with the boy through by their friend. After consider and discusion, they are back together.
But until 2009 july, they separate again. And this time, they will never can reuion. Because the boy clearly know, he cannot give the girl happiness anymore. He give up the opportunity give by the girl. He just say "trust him, give up no means no love anymore, it is because he know own can't give the girl happinest anymore."
Finally, they agree with the separete but they are very very sad. The girl dun want this condiotion happen again but the boy aldready done this desicion and cant chage again. They each other exchage a song, the girl give the boy a song who name is sing by "By2 . name song is "wo zhi dao(in mandarin)..While the boy is give the song, sing by SHE"an jing"(in mandarin).
Although they are love each other but they cannot be together. It is because the situation of the girl and the mind of the boy are not enough preapare well to continue their happiness. The girl just know she already miss her happiness in first time and the boy are not belong to her again except the boy are change him opinion.
The girl will always remeber still have a boy is wish her happy and health always...